re: kevin and victoria.

ouhhhh... good replies good replies. i get that a lot! or at least hoping i get it. not being as inclined to be verbose about stuff like this might have stunted me in ways. either way, it makes a lot of sense.

i'm glad that most of the friends i've made on these social medias i've been able to gather contact in other areas, mostly discord (even though that one also has it's huge amounts of ups and downs), so i'm not as inclined to be very post-y, even if i ramble a lot whenever given the ability to. and also glad that spaces like this can form up every so often so i'm not as inclined to look at feeds 24/7 for a chance of making those connections with friends again. still, i wish there wasn't such a need for it in the first place! at least on my part.

maybe it's some odd, horrible version of FOMO, but seeing this like, nigh necessity to be in certain parts of the web, either just being in them or having to be active in them, to be "in it" for stuff, especially for niches like fandoms and odd circles and all. especially when a lot of places are just not good to be in a lot of the time/for prolonged periods of time, like mentioned with twitter and tumblr (though i never really knew to which extent with the latter. huh! good to know).

still a bit unsure on which direction to go about with it. having to think about stuff like my "reach" and "presentability" (?) now that i need to get my art commissions game on. but this is very good to read either way.