It was really funny, as I briefly entered a qpr poly based around the quadrants and caused some fucking insane drama when someone I specified I only had feelings for platonically introduced himself to the people I had been dating. As my boyfriend. Which I had never called him.
Either way, I had always been poly, but it gave me new words to identify with as well. Pitch FTW
You say you'd still rather wear the outfit. He's got nothing to say about that.