re: jadetotem
actually, in the candy epilogues (correct me if im wrong its been a while) roxy talks about how she wishes she explored more of her gender, but becoming a mother kind of allowed her to like. "put it away" if that makes sense. still very clear writing for a trans man character (and usually id still call him he/him when referring to candy, but i didnt want you to confuse what i was referring to)
roxy never once "regrets" his gender transition in the way you are describing