I guess a more apt way to put it is that I don't exactly resonate with the traditional idea of a girl or a woman. I wear Lolita fashion a lot but I do not feel more "womanly" in it, even if it is a highly femme style. It is easier for me to attribute my gender to things I have always really liked and cared about, which is that elegant style, rather than just say that I am a girl. There are definitely some Homestuck characters who I really related to because of their gender identity like Roxy and how they started to experiment with their gender expression and stuff.