That's a beautiful thing to read. Welcome home, welcome to genderqueerness! :)

Also, I've already said that in the trans/nonbinary chill zone ( https://www.fruityrumpus.com/forums/reply/6898a8b3c24c58e653cd3332 ), but THERE IS NO WRONG WAY TO BE TRANS, THERE IS NO WRONG WAY TO BE NONBINARY.

Everything you need to be nonbinary is the will and/or feeling to escape gender binarity. That's it. That's enough. Because there is no ontological, cosmically true way to have a gender, the very risk of being a "gender impostor" isn't a thing.