in all seriousness YES you can be trans. you can be trans and not call it that if you dont want to. my gender journey has been so weird and odd and my labels have always changed but what i DID land on is the simple idea of doing whatever the fuck i want. i MUST derive JOY from my presentation, from my expression. it MUST cause me happiness, and if it is not, i should do the work to make it so! if i am dissatisfied with where i am at, with how i look, with how i am perceived- i will find ways to change that, even if they are weird, even if they are cringe, it does not matter, MY joy and MY happiness is what matters at the end of it all!! and so is yours!!! reach out and fucking GRAB that happiness, its yours to take