@meowmoment I'm not in her personal server, but I'm glad I helped bring attention to this as it seems there was a bad actor somewhere in management then. I'm well aware she's not at fault, but I still gave that very polite neutral tone to try and keep things professional. Believe me though, I was pissed off hearing about it, enough to make this post in the first place and I've been exhausted today for other reasons. It can serve one well persuasively to put observers in the shoes of the problem so they can see it from their own point of view. This could have been literally anyone and it was allegedly handled poorly, it's important to know that it happened at all for the sake of a healthy Discord server and to discourage this kind of negligent behavior from managers of the server onward.