@lyndis sorry thats stupid. like i dont want to be mean but thats the stupidest reasoning ever. "think about the kids!" is a fallacy used to propogate bigoted and harmful rhetoric and is part of the groupthink currently being used to ban books throughout the USA that cover "sensitive" or "adult" topics like... being gay. or trans. and is also the groupthink currently being used to further legislation that makes trans medical care impossible to get for adults, let alone trans kids. also the groupthink that is currently being used to attack gay marriage. "think about the kids!" is like the gateway drug to bigoted thinking.

as for the discord stuff, the server explicitly bans sexually explicit material in its rules. there is literally nothing wrong with having an account on an unrelated site that has drawn porn on it. if they were posting their porn in the server, sure, ban them. but are they? the answer seems to be a resounding no. so that point is also moot