@victoria yeah I pretty much agree with what ur saying

One thing outside of this specific person that ppl are having an issue to me is like, it's a public discord you can't rly gatekeep the entry part but you can manage the space inside, so the issue I'm noticing some people are having is like, cause it's a new server and moderation is still being established it is extremely difficult to exactly, stop bad people from entering the discord so people are mad that there are bad people entering but instead of reporting and like, trying to create a better space for everyone it's just like, complaining x person was able to get in when no one knows what's going on and they're also swamped with managing a space that has like a couple thousand people interacting with it.
I think a lot of it is just people expecting a properly managed discord day one with a huge influx of people bad and good when no one knows who is who so it's just all a bit messy rn