to elaborate on my stress comment, basically I just mean to say it is no surprise that something happened immediately and i think like. i more or less said as much yesterday but. obviously shit needs to be done to get to this point, but i am fairly certain we will get to a point where things are fine and this was dealt with cleanly and in a way that is good and hurrah for trans women. i guess i'm saying not that the ends justify the means but that the ends justify the being patient?

it is a scary situation because being trans online is scary, but we've been given good reason to believe things will work out and so I think there's not much use in worrying about it as people with no direct influence on the outcome. again, obviously the mods have to worry about it and i do not fucking envy their position, but. it's out of our hands and the hands it's in seem to have it in them to make it to the good end of this whole affair

really fucking rambly, i'm working on like three hours of sleep so sorry if that made no sense